Module 5

Practical steps to help make a relationship that will last.

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Singleness is a good thing

If you are considering going out...

friendship is a good place to start

What qualities should you look for?

Important
qualities
to look for...

Reliable

Loyal

Enjoyable to be with

Honest

Kind

What do your family and friends think?

Could you imagine marrying them?

Boys and girls are different

Boys

Affected by what they see

Girls

Affected by the idea of love and security

  • Everyone has them
  • Not wrong in themselves
  • Control them before they control you

Sexual desires

Social media

  • Beware of unhelpful ideas
  • Beware of dangerous people
  • Do not request, send or receive sexual images or videos
  • Affects your attitude towards the opposite sex, future relationships and mental health
  • Addictive

Avoid pornography

It is illegal to...

  • Engage in sexual activity with someone under 16
  • Possess sexual images of someone under 18
  • Watch pornography with someone under 18

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Practical advice

Practical advice for healthy relationships

  • Be careful what you watch, read and think about
  • Don't be influenced by others
  • Beware of alcohol and drugs

Practical advice for those in a relationship

  • Set boundaries
  • Avoid difficult situations
  • Test for commitment

You are valuable

Avoid vulnerable situations

Be ready to say "no"
and walk away

You may feel like you are swimming against the tide... But it is worth it!